Sports Psychology Coaching

Why Trying too Hard Hurts Athletic Performance

• Eli Straw

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In this episode, I explain why trying too hard during games can actually hurt your performance. I break down how pressure leads to forcing outcomes, how that creates tension and slows reaction time, and the mindset shift you need to make to play freely and perform at your best in competition.

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🎯 In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why trying to force results leads to worse performance
  • How pressure creates tension and blocks your natural ability
  • The difference between effort and force during competition
  • Why focusing on outcomes takes you out of the present moment
  • How tension slows reaction time across all sports
  • The mindset shift that helps you play freely and trust your instincts

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*This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute psychological or medical treatment. I am a mental performance coach, not a licensed psychologist. For clinical concerns, consult a licensed professional.